Sunday, October 2, 2011
This week we talked a lot about boundaries and how different families set their own boundaries and you can often tell what those boundaries are based on appearance. For example, a family with a Rigid Boundary would be very un-social and would keep to themselves. On the other end of the spectrum, a family with a Diffuse Boundary might be very open with who they converse with and allow many people into their lives and don't really have boundaries. A family with Clear Boundaries means that they are not completely reserved, but they are also not so open. It is a perfect balance between the rigid and diffuse boundaries and really helps to keep a family close, but not too close. Families are the most important thing and if boundaries are not set right, then it could be very harmful to the relationships between each person in the family.